James 1:19 So then,[a] my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; 20 for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God.
Be quick to listen
There are two types of listening, you can listen just to listen, or you listen with a heart. When you listen with a heart as well as listening with an open ear it gives you an opportunity to hear God speaking to you telling you how to handle each situation. He will provides you a way out. 1 Corinthians 10-13 No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it
In 1 Samuel 3:9 9 So Eli told Samuel, "Go and lie down. If someone calls out to you again, say, 'Speak, Lord. I'm listening.' " So Samuel went and lay down in his place.
To avoid any confusion pray, ask God to speak to you He will direct your path and provide you a way out. Make sure you listen and be a doer of God’s word.
First we have to be still and listen.
>>>>> (Psalms 46:10)says Be still, and know that I am God.